Goin' Shootin

Indian Boy is the most amazing shot! One time we were hiking and he shot the wing of a passing butterfly with a pistol!
He is not one you want to fool around with! lol
But I learned long ago- if ya wanna hang out with one of these country boys- ask them to go shooting.
They love to shoot, and show off.
And if that doesn't work- bet the $5 they cant do something.
"Five bucks says you can't shoot a can from 500 feet." (Guess what- it worked) lol
There's no easier way to get a guy to hang out with you than goin shooting.

Be The Kind of Girl You Want Your Guy To Be Friends With

Its always flattering when someone shows interest in you.
And its always nice to flirt with new people and all that.
But it upsets me when guys in serious relationships hit on me!
Their like "I love her, but your pretty cute too" and "Aw its just innocent flirting, no harm done."
But it makes me feel like a HomeWrecker.
Not to mention- would they feel the same way if their girl was "Innocent flirting" with another guy?
Sure she still loves you- but he's good looking so its ok.
? Really?
And so I try to discourage it. Often I have to put a guy back in their place- and tell them that it bothers me. And more often then not- then they get upset with you!
Why is it so hard to be faithful and 100% committed?
There is always going to be someone out there who is more attractive, funnier, smarter...
But that doesn't make it ok.
"Just looking" is wrong.

And on another note- If he's willing to walk away from her for you... he will be willing to walk away from you when he finds someone new.

I remember one of my leaders telling us once:
"Be the kind of girl you would want your guy to have been friends with"
Do I want my future man to have a friendship with a girl who would flirt back and tempt him? A HomeWrecker? Would I want her to teach him that its ok?

And this can go for so many other things as well.
All my guy friends, I try to encourage them to be better future men, and know how to treat a woman and whats expected of them.
And I really hope that whatever kind of girl my future guy is hanging out with right now... is trying to do the same.

I Don't Love You

Most of my friends are guys, and we've all been their for each of each others relationships.

And these boys have a moto the go by:

"Get on, Get in, Get off, Get Out."

Which in short means get them and leave them.

But while most of the guys are fine with telling that sad sweetheart they love her. Even though they only say it because that's what the girl wants to hear.

Indian Bow, however, hates that, and refuses to use the "L word"

He gets pretty mad when other people do it. "Don't lie to her" he says.

I like that he feels that way. 

He gets them and leaves them same as the rest- but he never lies to them or makes them think he's in it for anything more than fun.

And he is one sexy son of a bitch. Girls follow him like lost sheep. He's a celebrity in his own school. 

A true ladies man. haha 

Its just that he's so Charismatic. lol I don't know more girls than I can count on one hand who wouldn't go out with him.

But I love that he "Hates Love" 

Headin' for the Hills

If I was anywhere else I might have thought twice about meeting a almost stranger out in the hills, all alone, to play with guns. But this is here, and here that's normal.

And going shooting for a first date says allot about a person.

    I come from a... safer family, where guns are prohibited. And running out to meet some boy no one knows in the middle of nowhere is unthinkable.

So I sneak out and head for the hills.

He meets me out there in his Big, Sexy, Dodge Truck. 

And pulls out several guns. A shotgun. A muzzle loader. And a 22.

The shotgun and I aren't great friends after the deafening hunting experience. But I'm a hell of a shot with the 22- Shooting the lid of a water jug at 30 yards.

      And it wouldn't be a party unless something exploded.

So we stick a fire extinguisher out there and he shoots it with the muzzle loader, first shot.

Sadly it wasn't exciting as I expected it to be. No explosion, no cloud. Just started spraying the foam out as if we had pulled the handle.

I'm defiantly taking propane next time. haha

   After we rode around the hills in the darkness listening to Blake Shelton the whole way back to my truck.

Not a bad date... this one may be a keeper ;)

Watch it Burn

There is no better way to spend a night then out in the hills.
Get a pile of old wood and a group of friends. Some Luke Bryan blaring out of a truck.
And everyone sits around the fire, sharing stories, and laughing, enjoying the company.
They all park their trucks so the backs face the fire and drop the tailgates.
They don't call it a truck bed for nothin. lol
As its getting late and its getting chilly ya grab the guy you came with and cozi up.
Nothing like cuddling and watching the fire burn.