Be The Kind of Girl You Want Your Guy To Be Friends With

Its always flattering when someone shows interest in you.
And its always nice to flirt with new people and all that.
But it upsets me when guys in serious relationships hit on me!
Their like "I love her, but your pretty cute too" and "Aw its just innocent flirting, no harm done."
But it makes me feel like a HomeWrecker.
Not to mention- would they feel the same way if their girl was "Innocent flirting" with another guy?
Sure she still loves you- but he's good looking so its ok.
? Really?
And so I try to discourage it. Often I have to put a guy back in their place- and tell them that it bothers me. And more often then not- then they get upset with you!
Why is it so hard to be faithful and 100% committed?
There is always going to be someone out there who is more attractive, funnier, smarter...
But that doesn't make it ok.
"Just looking" is wrong.

And on another note- If he's willing to walk away from her for you... he will be willing to walk away from you when he finds someone new.

I remember one of my leaders telling us once:
"Be the kind of girl you would want your guy to have been friends with"
Do I want my future man to have a friendship with a girl who would flirt back and tempt him? A HomeWrecker? Would I want her to teach him that its ok?

And this can go for so many other things as well.
All my guy friends, I try to encourage them to be better future men, and know how to treat a woman and whats expected of them.
And I really hope that whatever kind of girl my future guy is hanging out with right now... is trying to do the same.