Monday, December 30, 2013

Its the hunt more than the kill

If you were out tromping around looking for a deer, and they just came running up to you yelling "Shoot me shoot me!" It would take all the fun out of hunting.
I mean hunting; HUNT-ing. Its the search, thats the fun part.
You have to search, outsmart, and work for the kill. Thats the whole point. Thats the excitement.

Dating is allot like hunting.
I see so many "Shoot me" girls, running right up to the guy practically begging him to take them out.
No matter how funny, smart, or drop dead gorgeous the "Shoot me" girl is- Its just not going to work because shes made it too easy and taken all the fun out of it for him. So he's going to go hunting for another girl.

Love has to be exciting and it can't be easy.

You only get to truly fall in love ONCE, so dont rush it and enjoy it.

And never, NEVER, be the "Shoot me" girl!

Thursday, December 26, 2013

FRIENDSHIP (verb)

Friendship is a VERB.

Having a friend doesn't just mean you call them first whenever you want to have fun.

A Friend is a person who's always got your back.
Does nice things whenever they can to make sure you know the care about you.
Remember the little things like your birthday and favorite candy- not just the big things.
Is there for you always.

And how do you get such a friend? Well you have to be one first.

I never really understood the actually meaning of "Friendship" and how great it was until FarmGirl and Indian Boy.
Nothing puts a bigger smile on my face or makes my day faster than a call just to see how I'm doing. Or a visit to say hi. When they bring me my favorite soda on a day I'm stuck at work fro hours- not because I asked- but because they thought to. Or when I'm having a hard time and my day sucks- a simple can of frosting and a spoon, saying "Hey lets watch a movie"
Knowing that no matter what your always welcome with them. And if you get stranded out in the middle of nowhere they will be the first to get their keys and come save you.

I love these kids SO much!
If one called me tomorrow and asked for a kidney I wouldn't even think twice about giving them both.

Friday, December 20, 2013

Never Really Cared

I never understood how you can mean the world to someone... and then have them not care about you at all.
And I guess the answer to that is you can't.
If you really meant the world to them- if they really cared about you at all, they still would even if they were with someone else.
They may not still be in love with you, but they should still at least care how you are.

Fish and I had the best summer crush story.
I could write a book about everything we did, everything he said, and everything I felt.
And I really did like him, but he let it all go.
But now, even though I try to keep a little contact and know how his life is going (Because we were close friends before so we should still be kinda friends now), he doesn't acknowledge my exsistence.
I mean, he will text me back if I text him, but mostly one word answers and he doesn't try to keep the convo going. Its all one sided.
And I think thats when I had to realize that he never really did care about me at all- or he wouldn't forget me now that he's not benefitting from me. And its unhealthy to have him in my life anymore.

So now he's just a memory.
No longer a friend, not even acquaintances.
If he ever finds the desire to talk to me- he knows where to find me.
But Im not going to be the one finding him anymore.

So I guess... this is Goodbye.


Saturday, December 14, 2013

Sweet Honey Buns

Whoever invented Wranglers jeans should be king!
Damn those country boys look hot walkin off in those things.
Their like magic pants!
Like the miracle push up bras are to men... Wranglers jeans are a gift to girls everywhere!
Can I get a hallelujah?
Mmmm mmm mm.
Nothin compares, nothin's better looking than that Wrangler Ass.

Wednesday, December 11, 2013

Arrow

I have always been attracted to Archery.
I don't know if its because I'm a Sagittarius or what.
But I do shoot. Re-curve 35 pounds.
And I've made the Arrow my symbol of life.
I want to have one tattooed on my wrist.
See, the arrow is the part of the weapon that matters, not the bow. 
Its focused and powerful.
But it has to overcome great resistance to soar.
An arrow can only go forward after its been pulled back.
But the harder its pulled back, the further it goes.
It is a symbol of hope and resistance.
And its my symbol for life.