Growing up watching Disney Princess movies I always believed there was that one perfect person out there for me. Who one day we would meet and fall instantly in "Love". It would be cute, it would be perfect, and it would be forever.
But now Im grown up, and I realize only imaginary princesses find someone who is 'Perfect' because they themselves are 'perfect' and "Happily Ever After" is only true because the whole point of their life was to fall in love with this person. Now that they found each other the "Happily Ever After" is the next 5 minutes of the movie- and then they cease to exist.
But I don't believe in Love.
I don't believe there is 1 perfect person for you- a "Soul Mate"
That you will meet, and it will be cute, it will be perfect, and then you will be together forever.
Thats just not how life works.
I think you just find a person. Someone who needs someone, and you need someone. So you two agree that even though your not perfect- you will make it work. And then you commit to each other and take care of each other forever.
Everyone has that unavoidable need to be needed. So when two people who need someone find each other- if theres any sort of attraction, right or wrong- they call it "Love" and life puts them together.
But its not the magical, can't live without it, found my should mate, cute, perfect "Love"
Because that isn't real- that doesn't exist.
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